Tonight is HOX open house. That will be a nice break from the comfortable Master/slave routine that Izrina and settle into. Aside from the almost invisible rituals, rules, and protocols that go on in the background all of the time, any visitor might think we are just a normal couple. Izrina has been out digging up bulbs and planting and what not. I’ve been busy preparing the vehicles for winter. We brought the fish in from the water garden… It freezes over in the winter. Our new house guests are swimming around in their new tank, brightening up the 7pm protocol dinners.
Originally we had a fair number of people signed up for open house but some dropped off and some are writing with questions and considering going. We never really know what kind of group we can expect until last minute.
Mistress Muroidea dropped by very excited about her Halloween costume.. and now Izrina has the bug… They are talking about shopping for a costume for the FMB Halloween costume party. Something mixing BDSM and bunny. Sounds interesting. Me, I always go either Steam punk or Vampire.. Steam punk is just too cool.. Sci-Fi technology meets steam age design. I also always loved the power, control, Domination, and yes fear of a Vampire. That has always appealed to the Dominant/sadist in me… So yeah.. one or the other.
One couple has expressed an interest in adding a third member to their lives. I haven’t had a chance to talk with them one-on-one yet but I am thinking their thing is sex first, BDSM second. Its interesting how each person, couple, or group has a thing…. a focus… but sex is almost always in the mix.
I’m not ready to make any observations on this just yet but I think it would be logical for sex to be in the forefront for younger people because your hormones are more abundant.. and less in the forefront the older folks….. Mind you I am talking about logic.. the natural and biological tenancy I would expect to observe as a direct result of your own internal chemicals. Of course it should go without saying that there are never hard and fast rules with people.. you are always going to find people that surprise you and break what you expect to be normal…
Norms…I was heading into the hardware store and annoyed because my heals were stepping on the back of my flare jeans which were too long.. and suddenly a whole string of thoughts crossed my mind. In the seventies I loved bell bottoms.. the huge “elephant bells” so big you couldn’t see your feet. This led me to reflect on how some people hated other people who wore them. Why? Because they were different? Why would anyone hate another person just because they didn’t have the same kind of clothes or hair (long hair for men was out too). Ah… the advantages of embracing diversity.
We’ve made some progress in that area but I think we have a very, very long way too go still. If a person is too odd looking.. others still tend to want to avoid that person. That makes me wonder how humans would deal with aliens mingling with us? I wondered… if aliens who looked wildly different lived among us, would that cause us to no longer consider a human to be odd no matter how they looked? Maybe. maybe not. Yeah.. my mind wanders across odd topics sometimes.
Feeling horny and kinky today. Hope who ever shows up at open house is up for a workshop or scene. I’m feeling like dropping Izrina into a little subspace tonight.
Carpe Diem my friends… be someone’s great day!