And by saddle I mean my online life. I know, I know… from time to time I just disappear from my online life. Sorry. Rest assured that in my real life where I live Ds full time – that life is good. Time to share some of it.
WTF Flogging, a 101 for leather massage
I did a flogging workshop at the Cabaret recently. Izrina and I had fun with it, starting with the name of the workshop. After setting up a couple of bar stools and laying out a number of our toys on a table nearby, we began with a quick question… Can anyone guess what the WTF in the work shop name stands for? You can well image that everyone assumed it was what you might think – – but it was not.
The “W” was for “Why do we do this?” The “F” was for “Flying”.. which is one step beyond the subspace we all know and love. The “T” was for “The Technique” we would use to fly. So it began.. a short speech on why we do this and a description of the end result that could be flying.. a step beyond subspace if you will. Then we got down to the fun business of making Izrina fly.
The workshop went well enough but if we do this again at the Cabaret, next time I’ll make sure to bring a sweet for when she is coming back up out of it, and my velcro straps to put on a support pole so I can create restraints that keep her from falling.
Not that she fell.. but I had to have a guest help support her about two thirds into it because there was a point where staying upright was getting in the way of flying… which isn’t normally a problem when you have a St Andrews cross with restraints. The Cabaret did not have one. I can set up an anchor point on the fly but didn’t show up thinking I would need to.
Suspension for young adults
I also have to make good on a promise to visit a young couple who have some lovely beams in their tiny apartment which will lend itself very well to a nice evening of bondage and suspension. More on that when we get there….