Bondage

There are many joys in bondage.  Yes, its slow but it is also sensual and gets inside your head.  Its important for the top to remain conscious of the tactical aspects..  the touching, the feeling of rope being drawn over skin, the pinching, the restriction, the pressure on sensitive spaces, and the sense of invasion while helpless.   Helpless invasion is a mind fuck worth playing with and it starts with trust…

Bondage is awesome.

Bondage with sex, is better than awesome.. just saying…

 

 

4 thoughts on “Bondage

  1. Definitely agree with most of your post about Bondage. It can be a very tantric and intense connection with your partner. About the sex part though. Respectfully disagree. Different strokes for different folks. I’ve never combined sex with my bondage. Not my thing. One can get awesomeness out of bondage without EVER incorporating sex into it. Just my opinion of course. But yes, absolutely, bondage IS awesome.

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  2. @Leathers I completely agree with this statement..”One can get awesomeness out of bondage without EVER incorporating sex into it.” I’ve seen happy little subbies go into a complete subspace head space just from mummification or suspension.

    I can also see where sex would be pushing the trust envelope – especially say in a play scene with someone new. My partner and I however have years of building a relation. We are way past testing trust.

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