Act your age..

There are things that change as you age.  Somethings we know.. acne for example.   Most people get it when their hormone start to rage, but then it subsides… usually.   We know that the menstruation cycle will show up, and then there will be a time of hot flashes as it fades.   We know that those three little lines start to show.. crows feet they are called, near the corners of the eyes.  We know that as we age, the skin gets less elastic.. maybe you have seen someone pull loose  skin from the back of the hand, to demonstrate.   And then there are liver spots, and skin that begins to look like crepe paper.

Sex changes too.  Women can experience vaginal dryness while men increasingly find it difficult to obtain an erection.  Izrina is twenty five years younger than me, and while I am in good health and have no issues I am well aware that this may not always be the case.  I have been giving a lot of thought recently to the way the body changes, and what that means for couples.

I sat her down tonight, to discuss this, to prepair her to think about what it means to be tied to an older man.  Service to me as I age will increasingly be just that.  She is required to see that I have my supplements.. Vitamin D, a multi, DHEA, and I just added L-arginine as a natural stimulant for increased blood flow.  This with diet and exercise is working so far. I am also going to add testosterone to my yearly tests. As I said, I’ve been giving this some thought.

I suspect as people age, and sex become more difficult, the focus changes more to intimacy and companionship.  I know my interest in sex was much more ravenous in my youth.

In my sixties, an hour a day is enough..  usually..  Quickies are nice, though on special occasions, I can see my way clear to wanting to dedicate some serious time to exploring deeper in.  The point though is that the Ds side of the relation is intensely satisfying and in many ways nearly as complete a spiritual binding as having sex.  But I wonder..

Is that the words of a person who’s drive has lessened a bit?  Isn’t it likely that BDSM for the younger crowd is driven as much by the quantity of chemicals in their bodies, as is mine? Just as they have more, and I have less, shouldn’t that impact us both in significant ways?

I suspect that it is natural for BDSM to be more about the sex when you are younger and perhaps it is more natural for BDSM to be more strongly about the quality of the relation, as we age.

Its a generalization of course which makes the premise flawed in an overall context, but in a general sense, I would not be surprised if a study concluded that the goals of BDSM change to some degree with age, on average.

All I know is, I hope I am one of the lucky ones who’s body keeps up with his mind.. because in my mind, I am planning on having sex frequently for a very long time.  Carpe Diem my friends.   Go be someone’s great day!

2 thoughts on “Act your age..

  1. I went to see a urologist did blood test and he suggested Testosterone shots . What a difference as a whole. Cheap I pay 115 every 6 months and it does what all other vitamin’s are suppose to do. 3 months into it and I feel like a new man. We went to Bush Gardens the other day and walking 6 miles seemed like a piece of cake. 3 blood test for the first 3 months to make sure everything’s in check so far so good.
    There are other benefits as well Arianna is running from me. Late night fucks , I dont care just lay there. Getting a deep sleep has been awesome even if only 4 or 5 hours thats my avg.

    There is a full testosterone and a free , my free was pretty low..

    I would check it out but you have to see a urologist who specializes in testosterone replacement , or it will not be brought up. A female urologist said eh 474 is pretty normal we are not going to worry , well the fact is 474 is very low. She didnt really care.
    Viagra is a band aide for a more deeper problem , dudes spend hundreds on ageless male.
    DHEA is good….

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  2. All good info for the aging male. DHEA and L-arginine are good natural health boosters. Ployphenois from apples too.

    The benefits of testosterone are clear, but messing with hormones has a potential I think for side effects. Everything in the body regenerates better and that would include some cancers. There is no study at this time linking normal does of testosterone to prostrate or other cancers however. I suspect it depends on the preexisting health of the individual. That’s just my common sense thought on the matter. What the body stops making something, there is probably a reason.

    Did some research myself and you are right. Your T-level is not nearly as important as your free T-level it seems. The FDA is worried about abuse of injections and creams and is talking about including warnings.. for now. We’ll see what else they come up with in the future. Apparently some people are administering too much, which IS a serious health risk.


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